It will be easier if the world only consists of "good" and "bad" people. It is complicated, however. Many a time, a lot of people actually fall in between the "good" and the "bad". It then made human relation interesting when we are not too sure how "good" or "bad" other people are. Have you had this experience, in that you "over-react" simply because you are a "kind" person and because you weren't sure of other people "intention" or "motive" and in the end you realise your assumption was wrong. I guess this sort of experience taken place in people life.
If you are a "kind" person or what some friends had subjectively claimed, you may then raise your defencive bar when dealing with people, especially if you had been "bullied" before. I don't think there is a one size fits all solution to this. But, do you believe that even kind people can have Karma? I considered this as the price to play for lesson learnt for the consequence of our behaviour. When we can't cure a situation , we accept and bear the consequence, in the future this "past" will become an experience and taught us how to devise preventive measures to avoid same thing to happen again.
Such life lesson becomes an important tool for future reference. People attract people, how we act, react and response all determine the consequence we get with people. The more we learnt from our experience (arising from the consequence we have to bear), the more we gained. As they all said, older and wiser, that is quite true. Over time, we learned more, we bear lesser undesirable consequences. Of course, those who never learnt from their life experience only get worst over time and never get better. Human relation can be so delicate and subtle that even those considered as "kind" or "good-hearted" people could miss one thing or two when dealing with people. This leads to consequences that just block the way forward for them.
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